Make Playing Adults the best community experience you can get!

About

That's a bold statement from us, yet we know we need you and every member of the Playing Adults community to help in upholding this statement.

Therefor we do ask our members for a certain commitment, one of those is that we only want verified members in our community, so every member can be held accountable for their actions.

We are convinced this will result in respectful behaviour between members, more open and free communications where everyone has the right of freedom of speech but does think about what they say and if this is really beneficial to the community in a whole. 

We also stimulate and reward enthusiastic members who find new members. For this reason, we enable all members with a personal dashboard page, where you can keep track of the rewards you have earned.

Why?

Because we strongly believe in cooperation and clarity.
 

Mission

We are changing the way people connect. On other platforms you don't know directly with whom you connect. Especially with couples; it might just be one of the two. So at Playing Adults every member is exactly one person with one personal account. Of course you can be couple (or even a group) who wants to explore the platform, but this means you and your partner(s) each have a personal account.

Why?
We believe that every individual is important and should be able to set and change their own preferences and should be able to connect with anyone in a specific way. 

You could for example be a couple with your life partner but he or she might not want to be included in all your activities. Others should be able to see this as well. So you might want to meet people with a certain interest and your partner won't, so these persons should know they only connect with you and not with your partner as well.

Or you have multiple partners with whom you share specific interests and together with him or her you want to meet individuals, couples or groups. Then you and that partner could create a group and set those specific interests so other people could find you more easily.

But this is so complicated?

Yes and no. 'Yes' you need to manage multiple profiles/groups if you create those. But 'No' because our tools make it easy to do so. And in the long run you should only profit from this initial extra time. You should be able to connect with other more targeted and skip all the bullshit.

Also you never know what the future brings. You could have been a couple on another platform for years and built up your network of contacts and then... a break up.

Now what? Close your account and loose your data, progress and connections? Or your ex continuous the account and locks you out with bad intentions. These are scenario's you might not think of when all is fine but surely can bring headaches when it's not. So we want you in control of your own personal data, no matter what.

Our values

Playing Adults strives to be an organically growing community where pleasure and respect go hand in hand. A community where, no matter your sexual orientation, you will feel at home and find like-minded people.  

Be world-class

The main complaint about dating websites, is the huge amount of fake profiles. Although we can never give a hundred percent guarantee that all our profiles are real, the amount of fake profiles, is close to zero. 

All members have their personal and verified profile. Our rules of subscribing may be more strict than on other platforms, but at the end of the day, you will benefit from that. 

Share everything you know


You as a member may have heard of, or have experienced, a sexual orientation, we have not yet heard of. Maybe you have some interesting market or target group information. You might have visited venues that could be great to organise a Playing Adults event or party.  

We highly encourage our members to share all information with us, you think might be useful or interesting to know.  

Always learning

At Playing Adults, our team loves feedback. We don’t claim to have all wisdom, so if you have any feedback that we can benefit from, we encourage you to tell us.  

On the other hand, we also ask you to open up for feedback. We or other members, may have some tips for you, to improve your profile and have a better time in our community. Opening up for feedback, does not mean, you always have to live up tot the feedback. That’s entirely up to you.
 

Be supportive

Not all (new) members have the same level of experience. It is for that reason, we highly stimulate more experienced members to share their knowledge and support, with other members.

Not only how to have an attention-drawing profile text, but also on the do’s and dont’s of dating.  

Take responsibility

You and you alone, are the master of your life. Be aware and conscious of the effects of what and how you communicate. Treat other people like you would like them to treat you.
Don’t blame people when they are not interested when you reach out to them, but realise you are also not everybody’s cup of tea. In order to have a pleasant time together, each community member contributes to that.

Enjoy downtime

We all know how much fun this lifestyle gives and how tempting it is to spend lots of time on the platform. However, do realise that there is more in life. By spending too much time, just watching your laptop screen or telephone, you might miss out the fun of going into nature, having pleasant conversations with friends, spend time with your family.

"Don’t get us wrong, we love to have you here and we even love it more when you stay with us for a long, long time. Not based on addiction, but based on free will, because you like being part of the community.
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Playing Adults

VIP-status

Many other platforms offer the possibility to buy a VIP-status.  

At Playing Adults, we believe, a VIP-status should be earned instead of paid for. Members who are loyal, contribute actively to the community, have a positive attitude, are classy and willing to help others, might be asked to receive a VIP-status.

As a VIP, you can attend selected events and parties, not accessible for other members. VIPS are the first ones to be informed about updates and new features for the community and asked for their feedback, thus contributing to and shaping the community as they wish it to be.


In nearby future, other interesting offers and discounts, will be offered to VIPS only.